Hi folks,
Hi, I’m Suramyaa Sarkar. I grew up in West Bengal, India. In August 2024 I moved to Norman, Oklahoma, to start a PhD in Industrial and Systems Engineering at the University of Oklahoma. For a few reasons, I couldn’t finish it there, so I completed a master’s degree instead in 2026. That August I moved to Buffalo, New York, and joined Professor Sayanti Mukherjee’s OASIS Lab in Industrial and Systems Engineering at the University at Buffalo. Here I started my PhD again.
In Buffalo I live by myself in my first studio apartment. I know it isn’t new, and I know it isn’t mine. It’s a rental, but I still love it. I miss my friends a lot.
I’m curious about a lot of things. The ones I keep coming back to are cinema, philosophy, and poetry. I have a soft spot for Iranian cinema because it feels honest and the storytelling is raw.
I studied classical dance and painting for many years. I’ve drifted away from both, but they still matter to me. I’ve also worked as a voice artist and acted in theatre. I like to write. I love clothes, mostly eccentric styles that stand out more than whatever is trending.
These days I’ve started traveling solo, and when I travel I follow Anthony Bourdain. My relationship with food is more than a simple one. In May 2026 I went to New York City and ate at all the places Bourdain had once recommended. It was the best trip of my life.
Animals are a big part of my life. I’ve cared for many animals who needed a temporary home, and looking after them has kept me grounded. I also love sunflowers, so you’ll see a lot of them on this site.
I left social media because I wanted more real connection in my everyday life. I have a quiet respect for other people who have done the same. To me, leaving is a small protest against curated personas, shallow interactions, and what I call weaponized kindness. I’d like to meet empathetic, thoughtful people who care about what’s happening in the world, enjoy long conversations, and keep learning. I want friendships that are honest and help both people grow.
If you’re healing from a dysfunctional family or from emotional neglect, you’re welcome here. I’ll write about psychology, philosophy, cinema, and art, mixed in with my own experiences and daily life.
Thank you for visiting. I’m grateful you’re here, and I hope something on this page speaks to you.
